I’ve written before about tone policing – when people get annoyed at the way people speak on social media. The problem with tone policing is:
a) Often, particularly on Twitter, the tone exists only in the head of the person taking offence at it.
b) It distracts from the content of arguments.
One particularly common complaint is being patronised. Roughly speaking, youthink you are being patronised when youdeduce that somebody you are speaking to thinks you arean idiot. Now, this may be a problem if it is real life and if it’s somebody you will have ongoing interactions with. But if you are arguing with a stranger on social media it’s really not worth complaining if you suspect they think you are an idiot, because nothing good can come from drawing attention to that.
This is because there are only 4…
View original post 206 more words